One recent study has called out secret credit card purchases as something
that could end marriages. Moneysupermarket.com has released an article
stating that one out of every ten people confessed that they used a secret
credit card, and that this factored into their divorce or
separation. This British website surveyed one thousand men and women, and it was
discovered that 36 percent of those who concealed their credit card usage
were certain that their spouse would be furious if they found out what
they had bought behind their backs. Thirty-five percent of those polled
admitted that they felt their partner would be bothered by the expenditures.
Strangely enough though, these former spouses were not only hiding extravagant
or silly purchases. Sure, fifty percent of those surveyed said that they
had hidden the purchase of items such as new shoes, but the other half
of the poll revealed that people had secretly used the credit card for
items such as food, utilities, rent, and gasoline. The survey also found
that there was a 60 percent greater chance that women would conceal credit
card expenses, but they expressed more guilt over the deception; on average,
men were found to actually greater amounts with a hidden credit card.
That this could lead to trouble in a marriage may not be a surprise to
many people, as dishonesty is often a trigger for serious conflict. Just
this summer, Kansas State University researchers said that conflict over
finances is a one of the chief indications of an impending
divorce. The National Endowment for Financial Education found in 2011 that 68
percent of the time, this financial infidelity hurt the relationship;
it dissolved the marriage altogether 16 percent of the time.
Of course, regardless of the statistics and studies, each situation is
unique, and at the Meyers Law Group, P.C., we understand that. Whatever
your reasons for seeking divorce or alternatives to divorce, whatever
your aims for your family's future, we are dedicated to helping you
find and achieve your solutions. Start working with the family law attorney
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